What is an orgasm?

Orgasm, also called “climax and coming,” is an immense and pleasurable release of energy that occurs during sexual activity, either with a partner or alone. When both lovers achieve orgasm, especially when the sexual act or penetration not reached, it is a sign of a very successful pleasurable relationship.

By the way, it is not necessary for the orgasms to be simultaneous. The pleasure is the same, even if one of the couples comes first, as long as the two are interested in that both get the maximum pleasure.

Neither is it essential to have an orgasm every time! The goal is to seek orgasm lovingly and patiently, remembering that pleasure is the way to get it.

How can I get my girlfriend to have an orgasm

How can I get my girlfriend to have an orgasm?
First of all, this is the question of a young man who wants to become a great lover. It shows that there is interest in the pleasure of the bride, who wants to be attentive to their needs and who respects the right of the girl to enjoy her sexuality.

The best way to get your girlfriend to orgasm is to ask her what makes her feel better or ask her to show you in some non-verbal way what she likes. That show caresses in such a way that she enjoys it. Pay attention to her reactions so that you know if you excite her or not. Do not pressure her to perform the sexual act. In fact, the less the young person presses the girl to get to the sexual act, while he touches her and shows her his love, the greater the excitement of her.

Are there more than one type of orgasms?
Yes, two: the masculine and the feminine. Men experience orgasm in a very different way from that of women. When they reach the climax, they ejaculate; and the semen, the liquid that carries the sperm, is thrown from the body by the penis. When they have an orgasm, there are many wonderful contractions in the area of the vagina and, sometimes, a shudder of the whole body.

Women lubricate, which means they can get very wet. The amount of lubricant can depend on how excited they are. Also, it is natural that some women lubricate themselves more than others. There are times when a woman may not lubricate because of fear or lack of a period of preparation. In such circumstances, the penetration can be painful (and even the introduction of a finger).

It is very common. Many young women ask me, personally or by letter, “when will she stop hurting me?” The answer is when they learn to relax and enjoy themselves because the female orgasm is mainly internal, many men (especially those who do not pay much attention) They do not know if their partner has an orgasm or not, which is why many women can “fake it.” A male ejaculation, being so visible, cannot be faked and usually does not go unnoticed.

Can girls have orgasms?
Yes, of course, but many of them never have them because their partners are too focused on the sexual act and getting themselves to orgasm, so they do not pay enough attention to the level of pleasure their girlfriends are experiencing. Also, too often, young women do not tell their partner what is most pleasing to them. Great lovers make sure that, whatever they do, their partners enjoy it too.

Why do boys have orgasms before girls?
It is mainly because the boys have fewer inhibitions about having an orgasm and, in general, about sexuality. In our culture, girls are not encouraged to be as sexual as boys. It means that they have problems with their desire for pleasure. It can interfere with achieving orgasm.

Also, if the girls do the sexual act and they not protected, they worry about being able to get pregnant or to be infected with a sexually transmitted disease. Worry interferes with not getting carried away by emotions and having fun. The boys who press their girlfriend to perform the sexual act are not lovers who care about their partner. A young man who respects his girlfriend can bring her to orgasm through sensual caresses of all kinds and will encourage her to show what it is that gives her pleasure. Of course, it is also beautiful that he shows her what excites him most.

How can you have an orgasm without performing the sexual act?
There are many ways, and I call them, to group them, the “other forms of Sex.” You can masturbate until you achieve orgasm while fantasizing about someone you love or desire. I call this “fantasy and friction.”

You can give your partner pleasure by touching and caressing the parts of his body that have greater sensitivity. One way is to play with the breasts or with the genitals. Massages are another way. A massage on the whole body is a splendid way to discover that it gives pleasure to your partner.

We are all different. Some people prefer a massage on their face or chest. Others love a foot or back massage. Even with genital massages, you will find that different people prefer different places and pressures. It is the reason that high lovers take their time to explore each other’s bodies. It is much more fun and lasts longer than the sexual act itself.

Kissing and hugging also help. Combining all this means that you and your partner can reach orgasm without worrying about pregnancy or the sexually transmitted diseases that can accompany the sexual act.

The couple must stimulate each other without thinking about the sexual act. Both learn to touch and caress each other in new and different ways. They are taught a sensual communication using both verbal and non-verbal exercises.

Remember that the two largest sexual organs of the body are the skin and the brain.

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